Whatever happens in our life...Be Forward-Looking!!

'You can only attack yourself in this world; there is no 'other'. See the one you are attacking as your gateway Home.'….Dr Chuck Spezzano

"Whatever happens in our life, we wanted it to happen (no matter whether it is consciously or subconsciously) the way we want it to be"

This is the most impactful thing i ever learnt from PoV. and i hold this idea with high regards, because, "We are able to be in control of our lives"!!!!

There are usually 2 different reactions. Either we take control of our lives and be responsible for whatever happens, or we still choose to victimise ourselves by thinking..."I know i am to blame..and i deserve this all..." and dwell into problems and sulk. That happened to me on Sat. Although i was very angry with myself, and when i THOUGHT i was recognising that i could control my live,i was actually making myself feel bad and dwelling on it... Sharks!!! luckily i realised that fast..(although not that fast, sorry guys!! see my sulky face again!)

*Note: Sorry to KL!! I choose him to scold again. My favourite target board who always never did much fight backs. haha~* He really did his very best for the Nicholas Chia's sharing session as we did the callings together. Being the team leader, it was hard on him, becos he was the one who will kena BIG TIME, VERY JIA LAT whenever things don't work well. 担当责任 as a a leader is not as easy...

Nonetheless, some people choose to put blame on others, victimised themselves instead of reflecting on what we ourselves have done. Whatever wrong or mistakes have been done. What we can do is, Forgive ourselves, and be forward-looking. If people choose to remain behind and not move on, be it. everyone has to move on with life.

So Stop dwelling on issues, let's move on!! If you don't want to be stuck with how a person or situation is, then YOU change. ;)