转角遇到爱 Corner with Love Part II

Oh my...i think i am experiencing the 转角遇到爱 character's silly behaviours. Did i watch too much drama?? No i didn't...i just watch an hour per day leh...but...i was so silly... kept wanting to piss pple off... especially him, again.

I was very happy today! Wore my best footwear, favourite yellow jacket, very comfy @ work. =) All my mind was looking forward to a good dinner after a week-long work. We went to The Soup Spoon at Raffles City.

Had good mushroom soup meal and a good chat. Tammy, as specially invited friend (she seldom hang out with us. haha~~*) and we both had mushroom soup and it made us very full. ;) Great dinner option for ladies who doesn't like high carbo meals, because they have soups like pumpkin and tomatoe as well (i'm vegetarian and proud of it =D ). Everything was good, with Tammy along =)!! However, i started to get very razor-sharp with my words, bent on bring "someone" down with my evil mouth. He was rather on the sweet talking mode with Tammy ard, which i kept shooting him down for. That's for the "respect" he gave me when I AM around.

Now i know how guys treat ladies who are too 熟 with them liao... its like a marriage going stale. Take a courtship for example. Before knowing u too well, they tend to sweet-talk, take efforts to take care of ur needs. HOWEVER, after marriage, they start to take u for granted. 太熟了！ stupid reason... How does real lasting marriages work? Must find out from Nicholas chia (successful pple with over 28 yrs of marriage!)..hahahaaHA~*

Even when we went to for desert @ an Italian cafe, Menontti, behind Raffles City ( i swear by its heavenly hot chocolate!! so nice!!), things didn't work out too well. I just feel the 'Hot chocolate classic' i always loved, tasted normal this time. There's no sweetness in it. Even the 'Soriatti' and 'Chocolate mousse' desert i loved 'oh-so-dearly', looked bad. =( Deep corner of my heart, i think he feels a "teeny-weeny tiny little bit" sad that i treat him this way(dunno whether true or not,just a wild guess)... i didn't mean to... I just felt that its all my fault for making him feel bad... dunno whether he sees this..but, i dunno how to say it "i'm sorry"...


I finally understand why the couple in the drama always argue like that..I tot they were being silly, until i felt it myself. It's so uncontrollable!! I just treat pple closer to me badly.. =( Hope he is happier now.. He looks exhausted under the toll of his work, but its really nice to see him so bubbly just now. =)


*Anyway, Menontti, the Italian cafe is a great place for a weekend chillout!! Their deserts are at half price after 10pm!!! So, do drop by after dinner to chill on weekends! Awesome place for afforable good deserts. ;)

转角遇到爱 Corner with Love

My elder bro got addicted to this show and i got it transferred into my laptop. *hehe*
I wasn't very keen on the show, although pple got great ratings for it. Maybe because i didn't have time to watch it, my bro is always well-ahead of me so i missed out on alot of details.

Anyway, what i realised from the show (which kinda amuses me and pisses me off MADLY) is, that the couple, Barbie Hsu 大S and Alan Luo 羅志祥, are always arguing non-stop!! Throughout the WHOLE show!!! WHy??!! U know what? It's because of their larger thAN LIFE EGO!!!!! i've got this large ego as well....

They are obviously concerned for each other, but always ended up quarrelling over small matters, because they want to be RIGHT rather than having be LOVED. They put up a strong front, a defensive wall and refuse to acknowledge their feelings, in fear of being hurt.

I did a POV card reading and i received this...FEAR
"FEAR paralyses us and stops us from going forward. With Fear we tend to slip into a fight-or-flight mode. When Fear has occurred, we are in a place of feeling separated and we are judging and sending out attack thoughts. Eventually we perceived these energies coming back to us, threatening and scaring us."

Interpreting the Card...
"It is time to bring in the antidotes to remedy your Fear. These antidotes include love, forgiveness, willingness, courage, letting go, trust, giving and commitment. Give up your resistance and your judgement, because they only increase your Fear. Stop writing a Fear script and change it into a story of love, adventure and success."

This is actually a card for someone else, who is always..protecting his feelings, building a strong foothold so that no one can invade. EGO. a BIG one. haiz...what can i do? Write a story of love, adventure and success and use my subconscious to make it true. hahaAHA~* The last card of the reading that i got was...*secret* ;)

Dreamboard!!

These pictures will come true!! =D

Just outta my bath room, i felt the urge to post these on my blog. =)

Just feel like sharing these moments of joy and peace and happiness together with ...

Jia you! AHaAHaha~~* ;)

2nd training for 10km Standchart run 2006...

My sis went together with me for my second training for Standard chartered run and i clocked a better timing, 14mins 46sec! =) Quite satisfied for a 2nd training. Shall plan to have weekly runs, every tues evening and sunday mornings ard woodlands area. =D

This time round, the 2.4km run which i thought easy, become slightly tougher. Mentally. I realised that it was due to pressence of my sis. When i started running, i felt an unknown pressure coming inside of me. It was then, that i realised (if i am not wrong), that the sense of competition is burdening me. (My sis is 16yrs old..ahaaAHA~~* i can run faster than her! Thx to HUNZA pdts!!*)

People said i think too much at times, but..WHAT TO DO WHEN I AM RUNNING ON A BORING STADIUM TRACK?? That's when i can calm down and think about things in life. Nothing matters more than me being able to calm down and focus on what i need to do with my life.

Ah haa! I realised alot of my stress comes from surrounding competitions, that i want to be better than others, and this stress builds up to a point when i don't wanna care abt anything anymore. Constant pressure from the environment to maintain or even improve myself, till at one point in life (during JC times), i gave up on myself.

Pressure, either drives you to become a better person, or break you into a million pieces. All depends on how we wants things to be.
(Damn i really hate having pple to run alongside me..imagine i have to compete with thousands of people at the run!!! ahaAHha~~*)

If that kind of pressure is too much for me, why not opt for competing with myself? (any better suggestions?? anyone??) I felt at ease and better-focused when i'm with myself. I seek not to lead or follow others. That's me, and i am very assured of that, which brings out the best in me.
Always seek for further improvement. 1st timing: 16min 05sec. 2nd timing: 14min 46sec. 3rd timing will get better! Or clock longer mileage! =D

Seek Constant And Never-ending Improvement.

Nicholas Chia - The Inner Wealth Circle

The Inner Wealth Circle, a prestige club formed by Nicholas chia, will be a 2 years program, consisting of 12 private sessions (meet up every 2 months) with Mr Nicholas Chia! The club will consist ONLY 10 professionals who signed up a WS at the Grand OPP.

Each session, Mr Nicholas chia will talk about
- Wealth Management
- Wealth Creation / A.S.I (Alternate Source Income)
- Investments Management
- Real Estate Investments
- Next generation's Wealth planning
- and morever, he may invite his top-notch networks to share in these private sessions!!
(*he is personal friends with Kwek Leng Beng of Hong Leong Group, Liew Mun Leong of CapitaLand Group, Wee Cho Yaw of United Overseas Bank Group(UOB) Group, etc.)

WBG is definitely leading Singapore into professionializing Network Marketing. With Mr. Nicholas Chia's vision, To become the Largest Asian MLM franchise in Asia.
He sets his vision for WBG and our GSS training academy to become what McDonalds and its HamBurger University (their worldwide management training center located in Oak Brook, Illinois) has achieved.

With Our GSS Training Academy, gaining recognition by various top professionals, such as Datuk Ikhwa, Senator of Malaysia and Mr Sanan Angubolkul of Thailand, Group President of Srithai Superware Public Company Limited (producing world class 100% melanie tableware around the World), WBG is set to become the First Class Institution towards professionalizing and cleaning up the tarnished image of MLM in Singapore!

With Mr Nicholas Chia, one of the top bankers recognised and respected in the corporate world, he is again re-elected to be the Chairman of Direct Selling Association of Singapore(DSAS). Not just in Bank of America, he is also the youngest Chairman in the history of 31years in the World Direct Selling Federation (WDSF)! It is another worthy evidence of Mr Nicholas Chia's competency and influence in the business world.

I am definitely praying hard for "How to become Rich without a Rich Dad III" session, so that i can invite only professionals, businessmen and those who really want to venture with Mr. Nicholas Chia into the sunrising industry of Network marketing!

Life's more than just 2.4km run...

Today i went for my first training for Dec 2 Standard Chartered Marathon run (10km-Women's). I ran a distance of 2.4km @ Woodlands stadium and...guess what??!! After my last 2.4km run (which was 5 years ago!!), i actually clocked a timing of 16min 04 sec!!!

Disappointing, yet encouraging, because i didn't suffer from pains all over my body, i didn't feel lethargic after the run (perhaps its attributed to my week-long detox juicing program!!)
My personal best was in my sec 4, where i clocked 12mins 54sec. I should have registered for 21km or 42.195km marathon...(if i am really disciplined to train for the next 3 months. hahaaAaaAA*~~**~)

Last time when i was still in JC, every PE period was dreadful when its scheduled for 2.4km runs. I hated running, but i HATE LOSING even more! So i have to force myself to out-run every girl in my class. And i did. It was just plain dreadful to want to win desperately. Just egoistic of me. haha~

However, when i started running just now @ the stadium, it feels completely an easy feat. It feels like, the World is suddenly so big. Just like a rat wheel. My "World" or "wheel" was so small during my sch days..that 2.4km and exams are the only pressure on me. Now, i'm exposed to more stuffs in life, vision and perception expands. That's why i felt that 2.4km was WAY TOO EASY to run.

Pressure during sch days => exams, 2.4km run
Pressure these days => personal results @ work and WBG, 10km run!!

How should i release some of the stress i'm feeling now?
Expand my horizon further!! Have greater mission and vision to accomplish so that i know what i'm doing now is too much an easy feat, anddddddd..............42.195km marathon next year!! ;)

To all and esp. those running for Standard Chartered Marathon run this Dec 2,
"If you want to win something, run 100 metres. If you want to experience something, run a marathon." ~ Emil Zatopek
(kapo from Jet's blog! hehe!~*)

How to GET RICH without a RICH DAD!

Back by popular demands, Nicholas Chia is invited again to share with us on "How to GET RICH without a RICH DAD!"

If ex-CEO of United Overseas Bank, Mr. Wee Chow Yaw, also 1 of the top 4 billionaires in Singapore comes to deliver a talk for you, would u grab the chance to go for it?
(provided you are ambitious and wants to learn from the top notch pple)

You may perceive that,"wow! UOB! a very prestige bank it is!" However, it is only ranked 300+ in the World's Forbes list. (Not too bad..)

Have you ever heard of Bank of America? Do you know where is it ranked at?? Better than Microsoft, better than GE, ...It is ranked World number #2 in the Forbes list!!!!!

Today, if there's a chance for u to meet and listen to ex-CEO of Bank of America, Mr. Nicholas Chia (who was in the position when he was mere 29yrs old, only Asian in the Board of Directorship, a Singaporean too!!!), would you want to listen to what he comments about the upcoming World Trend?

Being the Chairman of Direct selling Association of Singapore aand CEO of World Business Group, he will not only talk abt the global trends of Network marketing, and also he will talk about what does he sees in the potential of WBG, from a professional point of view.

Anyone receptive to network marketing or wants to know how the World is moving are welcomed. For tickets, inform me before 13 Sep, this thursday, as it running out fast! ;) See you all at the top.

My exit...Begin with the end in mind.

I commit myself to sponsoring 6 children for "Fund a Child" at World Vision (S), S$270 monthly by Dec 2007.

This is the initial "Exit" towards another phase of life. Using only partial of the passive monthly income from WBG, i want to do something for the society. Something that makes me feel like worth living for. Something that motivates me to strive and work hard for. This conclusion is a result of what we heard from Nicholas chia (CEO of WBG and Chairman of DSAS, ex-CEO of Bank of America!!!!), where we, the GSS team, had the privillege to visit his home. Very very nice big mansion~ :) It was through our leader, LongSheng's (project manager of a reputable Civil engineering company) help that we are able to visit Nicholas Chia. Very thankful of him as well. :)

What Nicholas chia shared throughout most of the whole 3.5 hours was, "To begin with the end in our minds" = Having a goal to achieve, achieve it (exit it), and set another goal for next stage. But we haven't even have a proper definite exit that we sincerely want to attain, how do we move towards the next?

I don't like cars, i don't like houses, i don't like money. But i like to enjoy a good meal or outing with family and being able to pay for it. I like to drive in a car, so that i can ferry my family and friends whatever they want to go. I like to live happily in a beautiful house with my family without my parents worrying to pay for bills, retirement funds. I like to travel with my close friends over the world and enjoy the beauty of nature and life. I like to have more money so that i can fulfil this tiny little mission of mine...(refer above)

It's not about the physical stuffs that money bring. It's about the intangibles we enjoy. I like to travel with friends overseas, which is why i love KL so much. hahaAHA~* Its my first ever overseas trip(i exclude Johor which i went once in sec sch with my dad, just a mere 2 hrs trip). That place, i can still remember the route from Wen Worth Hotel towards the Rapid Transit (the so called MRT), the malls that we visited, the seminars that we all went together, the discussions that we had with LongSheng and HuiMien (his wife) at the great cafe...



My wish for another trip will be one of the followings: Hong Kong, GuangZhou, Taipei, Kuala Lumpur.

Hong Kong (night view. Long Sheng wants to go there as our first destination after KL :D)

Guang Zhou (The City of Guangzhou - host city to the 2010 Asian Games. The new TV Tower will be one of the tallest buildings in the world - reaching 610m in height and is hoped will attract 10,000 visitors daily. It is set to finish late 2009, just in time for the games. I want to visit a friend there, as most likely, this will be a place i want to venture into China. ;D )

Taiwan ( Taipei 101 tower. I love the lovely fireworks thingy during the Taipei 101 countdown during the yearend celebration, which i saw it on Jet's Nokia 73. i wanna go and shop!!)

Malaysia (KL Petronas Tower. Can visit Long Sheng, Jet and Richard's newly opened Indinine cafe by WBG!~~* The next trip will be a leisure, relax trip!)