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The secret... I promise myself.

How do i stop my negative thoughts?

"How do I stop my negative thoughts?" - is a question that I have been asked many times. If you have ever asked this question then you will feel such enormous relief in knowing the answer, because it is so simple. How do you stop negative thoughts? You plant good thoughts!

The truth is always simple and it is always easy. To stop negative thoughts, just plant good thoughts! Deliberately plant good thoughts! You plant good thoughts by making it a daily practice to appreciate all the things in your day. Appreciate your health, your car, your home, your family, your job, your friends, your surroundings, your meals, your pets, and the magnificent beauty of the day. Compliment, praise, and give thanks to all things. Every time you say "Thank you" it is a good thought! As you plant more and more good thoughts, the negative thoughts will be wiped out. Why? Because your focus is on good thoughts, and what you focus on you attract.

So don't give any attention to negative thoughts. Don't worry about them. If any come, make light of them, shrug them off, and let them be your reminder to deliberately think more good thoughts now.

The more good thoughts you can plant in a day, the faster your life will be utterly transformed into all good. If you spend only one day speaking of good things and saying "Thank you" at every single opportunity, you will not believe your tomorrow. Deliberately thinking good thoughts is exactly like planting seeds. As you think good thoughts you are planting good seeds inside you, and the Universe will transform those seeds into a garden of paradise. How will the garden of paradise appear? As your life!

-Got this blog from a dear friend. Just what i need.

Now i pray for the people i love to enjoy health, wealth and abundance in this coming new year! I pray especially for a person i love to really achieve his wants and desires in life. Because he deserved it all. Cheers! ;)

New Year 2008!! With GREAT resolutions!!

Nicholas Chia's msg on 31 Dec 2007 to Jet...
"Best time to take stock of what you did not do in 2007 and set 3 things that you must do in 2008. Start with 3 things that you are extremely proud of that you achieved this year so that you can reaffirm to yourself that you can do the 3 things you set out to do next year. My contribution for 2007 Godson. God bless."

3 things that i did not do well:
1.) Not earning and doing enough to go full time WBG
2.) Not running a full marathon (42.195km)
3.) Not giving my parents enough money i promised them.(but i still give a decent amount)

3 things to do in 2008:
1.) GSS team to have each 10 people and my 10 partners to go HK Disneyland in May 2008
2.) Quit job to be fulltime trader!!!!!
3.) Bring family for a holiday trip! + i still want to run a full marathon!!

3 things i did great in 2007:
1.) Running my first 10km in my life!
2.) Picking up my saxophone and clarinet and still be able to play well again after 5 years
3.) I stayed loyal, stick through thick and thin with WBG.

Resolutions for the year 2008:

1. To be dedicated to my career in WBG as Franchise trader and leader
2. Go fulltime Franchise trading by April 2008 (Be the catalyst to a winning team)
3. GSS team to have each 10 people (about 50partners) and my 10 partners to go HK Disneyland in Mid May 2008
4. Run a full 42.195km marathon
5. To go presidential before getting boyfriend (set good example for duplication in team
6. Give thanks to God daily, be blessed and happy to be with my family and friends i loved dearly
7. To have a good Samsung G600 phone!! *coming soon*
8. To donate $250 per month to World Vision with good financial health
9. To bring the GREATEST support to my dear partners in GSS team in their business
10. To set good example and Lead from the Front!
    . . . And more to come.... ;) will write more.
    

I don't really crave for material stuffs, because i am happy to have GREAT friends, partners and mentors around me. But, i wouldn't mind having a nice Chopard watch, or having a good nice environmentally friendly hybrid car(if ever Lamborgini or Ferrrari comes out with it). First thing i wanna achieve in WBG is the HK Disneyland trip ! With my promised friends and partners!!! Set eyes on it first. *i still love people better... ;)

Last of Dec 2007

Had a great time at WBG for our Choco Festa 2007 countdown!!! pictures aren't uploaded yet, but will be it in a short while ;)

GSS team prepared drinks, (simple rose syrup and lychee drink) while the leaders brought lotsa food!! Got pizzas, cheese, desserts and lotsa chocolates!!!

GSS team is represented by Cynthia and me (the first few who arrived first), followed by KL, Jiehhong, Pin, Daryl, Francis and Weijie! (The 18-25 yrs old team..young, energetic and full of potentials!!) We were the energizer once again for the event that night!!! Awesome..

It was a simple gathering, with no emcees, just great music and eat and chat and laugh away like any family gathering. Champage drink at the end and we go off happily to celebrate the new year @ Clark Quay!! ahaaAAHaA~~*

We met up with Mingjian and Tammie @ Central, and we went to Central MALL after that. Why? To go clubbing!!! NEVER in my life did i go clubbing with GSS before!!! People include cynthia, KL, mingjian, tammie, weijie and yong chun (jio him while he was in WBG office by himself). We went Club NaNa.

Central and Central Mall is totally different place!! We went wrong directions and got tired while walking, but still we reached our destinations and guess what we see inside the club?? THAi girls!!!!!!!!!!! The performers were ALL THAI!!!! Mostly very pretty ladies, and handsome guys...only 1. aahHa~~

Mingjian, Tammie, Weijie, Yongchun and Cynthia enjoyed themselves, while me and KL were...abit...off. I didn't really like going clubbing, but i always tot that, if there were a bunch of close friends with me, i can still handle. BUT nooOOooO....... i still feel.. off. KL felt the same way as i did. Clubs are for...pple will no directions or no better things to do to waste time away. But on the other hand, Mingjian called me when i got home and he said, Clubs are for...pple to release their stress, tension and let go and feel free! There's always the 2 sides of view. No right no wrong. ;)

But you know what i saw?? I see...$$$!!!! Thai girls needs MIRAECA!!! hahaAAHAha~*joking! but it can be done..hehe~~ Cyn knows the owner of the club that's why we got free drinks!!

In the end, KL and i left earlier to go home, because we were dying from boredom. Waited quite a long while to hail a cab home. hmm..nothing very interesting. Talked abt new year resolutions and....YES!!! 2008!!! I will go presidential!! And get a boyfriend only after presidential to set good example for duplication in the team! No boyfriend before presidential!!! i always dreamt abt having a good boyfriend during uni days..but Ever since starting work.. i realised that if i don't have a good career to match with the guy i want, how can i ever get a good boyfriend of the calibre that i want??!! To get the guy i want, i must also have about the same qualities too, isn't it? ahhaAAHA~ Go Presidential! Then boyfriend. haAHa~~* ;) If anyone wants to challenge this arguement, find Jet. ahahaAAHA~~*

My first FTM cheque...

My First ever Franchise Trading cheque...just 1 month... a small $684. Pray it grows to a good $68400.Under my sis's name, using her acc. ahhaAHA~~* Really thank Arthur Yap, the creator of Franchise Trading who made everything so simple and easy! Franchise out, Trade our patented pdt Indinine...no more sucky MLM where even fat guys run away FAST when they hear it.
Anyone can do trading! Next month will be more rewarding! ;) Coffee coming out soon....and

i checked out the market.
Some has good coffee (premium Arabica coffeebeans)
Not many has coffee which replaces sugar using fructose,suitable for diabetics
Not many has coffee which are organic and suitable for vegetarians
NOBODY has good coffee with INDININE inside...ahhAHA~~*
Indinine Energizes, Rejuvenate and Repairs cells!!!!!!!

Franchise Trading Model, FTM ROX!!!! ;)

22 Dec 2007... KL's birthday + Great year ahead!!!

The first biz seminar of WBG ever!!! Held at Suntec Conventional Hall!!!

It was inspring to see soOOOooO many getting small cheques and 19year olds in Malaysia getting RM $18,000 (abt S$8000) in JUST ONE MONTH into the new Franchise trading system!!!!

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From now to End of April 2008, if we are able to have 10minitraders volume into Franchise Trading monthly, franchising our patented products Indinine, we are entitled to a trip for 2
(or a couple ;D ) , 4 days 3 nights trip to Hong Kong Disneyland!!!!!

What a great incentive to our hardwork!! A great relaxing holiday, expenses FULLY PAID by WBG, plus it'll include a 1 night gala dinner with great celebrity musicians coming in! Finally, we will have the International Conventation where ALL franchise traders of Premiership and above over the 10 countries will gather together!


Some pictures of Disneyland HongKong!!!


Amazing fireworks!! Tons of photos of them now! ;) This is Disneyland Castle... wow... it's magical...i really dreamt of being Cinderella when i was young.. hahaAAH~~And this is HOLLYWOOD HOTEL that we will all stay in!! Right at Disneyland HongKong!!!

The Entrance of Hollywood Hotel...btw, these photos are grabbed from

www.flickr.com..that explains the relax looking couple in the pictures...aahAAAH~~ The cute looking toiletries in the hotel... Mickey mouse design!!! Must think of a way to franchise trade IndinineLuxe series to them...ahaaAAH~This is the Hollywood Hotel swimming pool...cool.... can start planning what to do while i surf www.disneylandhongkong.com Welcome to the Hong Kong DisneyLand Resort!!!This is the map of Disneyland HongKong!!! There's a more exciting one at it website!! Do go check it out! ;)

And also, not forgeting KL's birthday!!!

We went Shokudo Japanese restaurant at CityLink for dinner...KL was not feeling well, because he slept 3 hrs the day before!!! Dunno what he had been doing...haaahaA~~

Anyway, pple we got were, KL of course, Cyn, Ee pin, Weijie, Mingjian, Me and guest appearances GuangRong and Wilson!!! James u pang seh... :( :P Make sure u turn up for mine!!! ahahaAAH~~

Food at that restaurant wasn't that fantastic, and KL was so tired that he suggested going home...actually...he was quite disappointed with the 1st present. ahaAHA~~*

Ann: So, THIS IS UR PRESENT!!
KL: What's that?
(Shows him the thumb drive!!!)
Ann: There! Your present!! Just a small gift, but with alot of efforts and meaning leh!! Got great pictures for dreamboard!! ahaaAAH~*

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Second round...
Ann:"HahaAAH.. dun bluff you le lah..."
(Hands over the real birthday present!)
KL was ...touched.ahaAHAa~~ Not a cheap gift leh~ Of course, expenses half goes to Cynthia~ ahahAAHA~

Braun Buffel wallet
(1887 DLuxe series,to mark its 120 year anniversary, color:Burgundy)

So, he got energetised of course!!! So we went to watch movies at Causeway point. The movie we watched is...National Treasure: Book of Secrets.

A great movie to be watch!!!
The show last abt 2hr 15mins! Great show! But KL and pin were so tired, they fell asleep halfway thr..ahaahaAAH~ Anyway, it was a fantastic day to mark the coming end of 2007 and Let's look forward to Christmas and a GREAT NEW YEAR 2008!!! ;)

Life in Citibank...

Life in Citi maybe a real kingdom of boredom ...however, it is the POWER of friendships which kept me surviving .. and these are the pretty ladies of our department. ;)

Office shot at Citibank Millenia Tower ;)

BBQ at Juanna, our manager's place at Pasir Ris. (i couldn't eat BBQ! So i ate cooked food there. Although i'm vegetarian, i still visit friends' BBQ sessions alright?! =P )
Notice that the ladies all quite pretty?? ehehEEHEeh~~* Want their numbers?? ALL ATTACHED LE!!!

And also, the Mr Wu Zun that i mentioned. Although not very alike lah...but he's got some character and the HEIGHT!! (1.83cm), but lack of sense of humour. I'm 1000times more humourous than him leh~ Anyway...yah..that's about it. ;) I enjoy their company amist the tons of applications of credit cards...

Letting Go and Abandonment

Today, someone told me the difference between "Letting go" and "Abandonment".

E.g.
You are clutching tightly to a bunch of keys.
It's either,
1. You drop it to the floor
Or
2. You open up your hands and let it remain there.

Num 1 reflects abandoment. It shows that you are just trying to throw away whatever problem you just have and run away from it.
Num 2 reflects letting go. You accept that you have this issue, not run away and face it.

Reminds me of the confession i made to this guy a 3 weeks ago.
The first time i told him that i like him, i choose to run away, not wanting to come face to face with him, to avoid embarassement, feel sad that he has rejected me, etc. I refused to accept that he wouldn't like me, for whatever i done for him. I believed that TIME WILL TELL. TIME WILL PROVE THAT HE WILL BEGIN TO LIKE ME.That was running away from the truth,sad to say.

The second time i told him subtly that i still like him, i choose the easy way out. Send SMS. Stupidest thing to do, and easiest way out, because i get him to know that i still like him, and not feeling rejected because i KNEW he dunno how to react (he wouldn't reply lah!duh!)

The third time, which is the most recent, i met him to want to know the truth, right in front of him, face to face. He told me and i accept it. I didn't feel rejected this time, but freed. We even chat and laugh right after he told me he doesn't like me! This is the example shown by the bunch of keys. I still do like him, i accept that i have this issue and let God grace me. i can face him normally and not run away anymore. I feel at ease when i am with him and not feel that hateful rejection feeling that i am rejected 3 times BY THE SAME GUY!! ahhaAAH~~*

Damn i am proud of myself. I can say that i am SLIGHTLY more open to guys now...maybe the guy in my office can make it, compared to some guys introdued by my girlfriends.. My standards is really high after checking out some guys recently.. i look for pple with good fengshui (no need to be too rich now, but must have determination and perseverance to stay tough in doing biz), like Arthur Yap and Nicholas Chia combined + Wu zun's looks. ahhaAAHa~~*

If got good lobang for such guys (got gf also can!! Not married can liao.hahaAH~*), just let me know! ;)

Truly a miracle.....Miraeca

Gosh...
Things are going the way i want them to be, just because i used "The Secret".
If you don't have 2 hrs per day to watch the secret, this is a quick 2 mins booster daily!
http://edvy.multiply.com/video/item/64

Made just 25 cold calls to beauty salons (i should make more!! Will continue calling after this posting )and over 10 replied to meet me that they want to know more about "Miraeca". So what is miraeca??

I can't imagine when "The MOOR" comes, how rich can i get??!!! Woohoo!!! (aiyo, must work hard lah....bia for a few months, enjoy life later lah....although i'm crawling like turtle already, but i'm not at snail's pace yet lah!! =P )
End of Citibanker life for me by Feb!!! (Shit work there...No Life, no Love!!)

My closing successful one-liner for each call:
"If there is this lovely and healthy product, which within 10-15mins, increase the ladies bust size, would you like to know more about it?"

And this will mark my way towards Premiership in the new Franchise Trading Model.
"Annie 10minitraders Premier by 31 Dec 2007"

This is what i've been writing every night before i sleep, everyday when i wake up.

Check out www.indininessecret.com to find out more about the secret of Indinine and Miraeca. ;)

ps: don't tell so many pple about my callings, ok? Not many pple are doing that yet...heheee.... ;) Take over the mini Beauty salons in Singapore!! ahahAAH~*
Interested to be franchise trader as well?? Must be willing to work hard for a few months one leh!! email me at enquiries@indininessecret.com ;)

Life ROX with Franchise Trading Model!!!!!

Standard Chartered Mararthon 2007

Early morning 4.30am, i got onto KL's dad's cab to get to our 1st destination of the day, Padang field, to meet up with Weijie and we headed to Fullerton starting point after loading our bags. Saw alot of enthusiatic pple waiting for the start of Full marathon (42.195km!!) at 5.30am.

Here's where Long Sheng, KL and jie all doing their warming ups, getting prepared for the race. LS even said that i will run a 1.5hr run for my 10km race! Let's see whether i can achieve it.... hehe~* Here's Hui Mien as well! SHe's Long Sheng's wife and she's going for the 21.5km half marathon!

Here's the starting point beaconing the marathoners and off they went!!
See that huge beaming light?? Blocked all that fatastic view of thousands of enthu pple..ahaAHAh~*

A great event where i saw many of my "long time no see" friends while running! I saw Han Boon from Siling pri, Zheng Guo from Pioneer JC, (full marathon!), Anthony and Wu WeiCai from ex-sch band BT Band. And i tot i saw Kumar as well...better go confirm with him again. ;)


From Left: Long Sheng, WeiJie, KL and Gavin.

Here's me and my friends from WBG!! I run 10km while they ran for the 42.195km full marathon... i finished at 9.40am, while they all come back after 10.30pm (sub 5!! Under 5 hrs), some at 12.30pm even! LS was..quite accurate. haaHAa~ i ran a 1:21:22sec. Quite an achievement for me who only trained twice before running. hahaAH~* HuiMien clocked 3hr for her half marathon too~ Great~ ;)

Jet, Ivy and Seth went for it also!! NEver in their lifes have they went for a full marathon, Just 30yrs of age and they can still clock quite a speedy timing!! Impressive..

I waited and stoned at 200m before the finishing line until i dozed off for 10 mins and i only saw Long Sheng and Gavin running back. The rest i din see...my eyes went dazy after watching hundreds of pple running past, in the same motion, for 2 hrs!!!!!!!!!!!!

But u know what? Its the perservance to finish that DAMN LONG run which counts... That's pushing themselves to the LIMITS!!! (Salutes to the full marathon runners!)

Just like the business we are doing. Perservance to drive us to the LIMITS. ;)

An event that, makes me wanna go for the FULL marathon next year. 10km is really no kick after running it. While i was running, my mind kept thinking....10km is not comparable to 42.195km...

While i was running at 8km already, i was thinking..."fwah!! they have to run 5 times by distance ah...That's pushing to their limits...!!!!" I raced past the finishing line, feeling...sian...i should have gone for 21.5km at least...

The learning experience from the 10km run: "I can achieve far greater. 10km can't test out my limits". A real test to my mind, mental strength, as for the past whole 10km i was running, i kept thinking abt stuffs to kept myself going...Band comp '98 music..Jet's motivating music..i'm Alive by Celine Dion..alot of mental stress, until one moment, i decided, "THAT"S IT!! I HAD ENOUGH OF THINKING TOO MUCH!!! JUST run lah!!! RUN!!!!" Getting rid of all rubbish and shit and chiong for what i want. hahaAH~* Just like our biz.. if we kept thinking of the negatives, we will be literally self-poisoning ourselves. Just run lah!!!

Marathoner's tips: U only start to walk after 20+km!! Even if u run very Very VERY slow before that, u still must run!!! If you stop to walk before 20km, jia lat BIG TIME....

Alamak!! My last man only stopped to walk after 17km leh!!! How am i gonna race that full marathon?? That's gonna REALLY test my limits if i go for it next year..

Gonna run with these guys again! Jia you!

Quote:"If you want to win something, run 100 metres. If you want to experience something, run a marathon." ~ Emil Zatopek"


*And this is Santa Claus (managed to catch a back view) that KL and I met while we are on the MRT back home! Wish for a Merry Wealthy Christmas this year!! ;)

Freedom

23:36, 30 Nov 2007. My beautiful little dream shattered. Sad, but i am freed.

I imagined that i would be full of tears asking him the question. But when i faced him, i couldn't help but laugh at him. Dunno why. I feel like..a "Arthur Yap". Felt like a funny woman, waited so long at the mrt, having my heart almost jumped out while i popped the qn. hahaAAHah~* (No offence to Arthur, but i simply love his humour)

Before asking the qn, I asked him to choose between a and b. When he answer my qn, he must say it out fast. He must say it firmly. And then, i paused for a long while...............................................................................
Its 1000 times more diffcult than invitation to traders' presentation!! I couldn't face him, so i asked him not to face me. Watching his side view, i know the ans already. I wanted to forget abt asking, but i have to. Or else i would have allowed myself to escape into my beautiful little dream. i popped the qn. He didn't want to ans directly, just like the first time i asked him 1.5 year ago.

The longer he dragged time and not answering, the more hopeful i got! So i forced him to choose between a and b. He choosed option b. All these took less than 10mins.

Lots of tears...but I feel relieved and freed...

The Declaration

After talking to Lin for 1hr 23mins on the phone (now 12:52am), i decided that i shall make the move, for the 3rd time and the last time, to declare my liking for him (realised that i din say "love" for him? i'm scared of committment too!!)

O'right...declare my love for him. To true love. If he turns me down again, i must commit myself to finding true love and not look back. I shall go for The Dating Loft's session on 14 Feb 2008!! 6 singles' meeting session and 12 private datings!!!

You know, the proudest thing i ever do, most daring and courageous stuff i ever did, was to tell someone that i like him. I can be a coward doing presentations, but telling or chasing someone, THAT i can do. However, to do it AND commit to loving him for my lifetime (of course i started it wanting it to last a lifetime!!).. its tough. But i still want to do it, this time ard... either commit, or move on.

Times are running out, towards the cut off date on 12 Dec for the franchise trading biz, but i just find myself unable to fully commit to work if i can't get my heart settled. I want to get things done and know how's he doing, whether he's getting on well out there...I want to commit to both my work and true love. If things works out, time can be planned and managed. If committment isn't promised...i guess..i wouldn't be able to do well in either biz or true love... I sincerely do think that both things are linked. Yah..whatever.

So this weekend is the Ultimum. Wish me love. :)

HERO!!!

I won a contest!! A pair of movie preview tickets to HERO!! And guess who i went with? hehe...no one knows... ;)

That show was simply awesome.. haha, although he doesn't quite understand how the story flows (because they were speaking Japanese all the time! sometimes got spanish, got korea also!!) Overall, its a good show to catch. ;) The company is even better. Our 2nd movie together. Better this time round. Don't tell him u all saw this posting! Its a public secret!! (doubt that he ever reads blogs..IT idiot..ahah~)

We had Subway Veggie Delite for dinner, with 3 cookies, 2 cups of ice lemon teas and it was quite filling. Throughout the movie, it felt it is quite the same as the drama serial "Hero" itself. Quite memorable, because it was one of my favourite TV serials in my sec sch days. =) hahAHa~* Oh..my hero..haha~*

There's the female lead, who waited(although she denys..) 6 years for the male lead! I wonder i will ever wait that long..and coincidentally, i'll calculated a few days back that, according to what-so-ever info i heard from last time, human relationship feelings for another partner starts to ... "subside",due to some hormones..dunno what lah.. after a couple of years.Somemore mine is one-sided!! HaizZz....I think mine is 3 years maximum. 2 years passed already. Left 1 more year... haha~* I want my other half by next Valentines' day!!! Hope my dream comes true. =)

Anyway, nowadays very busy..with tons of work @ citibank. Its the physical tireness straining after work. PLUS Arthur Yap's in the picture!! Franchise Trading Model!! A model that totally excites me! Gets my adrenalin pumping to aim for my monthly goals!!! Man...i'll be busy doing activities, so may not be updating the blog for sometime.. so hahAHA~~ i'll do when i have the time to. ;)

拥抱爱与丰盛 Love and Abundance

知见心理学国际训练师张含瑄老师 (Zhang Han Xuan) was here for 2days session @ SMU. Session was amazing.. time for self-healing and applying what i've learnt.

Typing this after eaten cheese prata from my neighbour kopitiam. I really loved the prata there, because of a special person...

I used to hate my own birthdays..because of certain events which happened in the past. The only 2 good birthdays i will remember forever is my 16th and 23rd birthday. The 16th was with my a group of beloved friends from BTband who brought me to ECP on a rainy day. ahahAH~* And the 23rd, was with this special guy, knowing that i was gonna spend a lonely birthday by myself, accompanied me to my neighbourhood kopitiam to eat roti prata.

How's it related to PoV? I used to hate birthdays because of a lack of self-worthiness, an event happened during my 7th birthday. Going for PoV, i set 2 goals to achieve:
1) A promise to heal and love myself (this is very difficult for most pple)
2) To have a partner by next year Valentine's day 2008
Only when i learn to love myself (not having self-guilt, self-attacks,and commit to loving myself for who i am), i will be able to love others.

Ms. Zhang Han Xuan metioned that during a relationship, there is the honeymoon period, followed by the Power struggle period, where couples may start to notice each other's so-called incompatibility, faults, and mistakes. Ususally couples break up when they can't get past this stage.

A question asked by Ms. Zhang Han Xuan,
Qns: How to differentiate love and needs?
Ans: Do you love him so u need him, or do you need him so you love him?
Take time off, be with yourself and ask that question.
And if you still don't know, then Commit to the person. A promise to your other half in the relationship.

How to survive power struggle? Power Struggle happens during the independent stage of a relationship. Committement to another person is the route to interdependence, is one of the hardest things to do, especially when you don't even love yourself.

Love thyself, and you will be able to love others. How can you give love to others when u are in drought, lack of it? :)

Pursuit of Happyness - a start through PoV

I made up my mind to attend this coming weekend's 2 day PoV workshop by Zhang Han Xuan.

With only one thing in mind, Pursuit of Happyness. To revive myself from the drought in relationship i am suffering. To rekindle the light i always have for the pple i love. =) Jia you!~*

Got this idea at 31 October 2007, 23:58. Decision set at 1 November 2007, 00:00! It'll mark a great beginning to next year 2008!!! Hereby, I wish for the love i wholly desired for all these years, by the coming Valentine's day (2008). =)