A Promise...to deep lasting relationships..

Fear is Love's greatest obstacle, and most of the time, Love's greatest secrets teaches people how to overcome fear. The fear of rejection, the fear of stupidity and the fear of failure.

When a person is unable to promise a commitment in a relationship, it is bound to fail.

I believe that when we desire love, we must be able to conquer fear and also, willing to commit into a relationship, promising each other.

The lack of promise is a common problem in this society (with bad experiences in love, family, previous relationships,etc) ,and of course, when one experienced rejection, pain, he/she will naturely avoid the same thing happening again.

When one's fear becomes greater than the desire for love, they retract into a world of loneliness, darkness, dullness.

There are always the highs, the lows, the ups and downs in a relationship.
And whenever a relationship hits the rocks, only the promise to each other will be able to keep it alive.

If a couple were to experience unhappiness in the relationship, and one hinted a breakup, sooner or later, it is bound to end.

Why? Because they have treated the relationship like a scarifice. They never treated the whole relationship seriously. They have never prided the relationship as a priority.

For a relationship to be successful, one must place the other in priority or an important position. Even more important than career or wealth. To put it simply, a break up will never be considered. No matter how sever the quarrel may be, none should threaten a breakup. If the thought were to ever surface, it will surely bring up a chaos to the relationship.

The meaning of a promise is, no matter how difficult the situation may seem, giving up is not an option.

Sometimes, its only that we have never give a promise, that's why we give up so easily.

Everyone desires love and relationships. But the real issue is, how much promise have you given to love? How much promise have you given yourself?

A promise identifies whether a relationship is strong or weak...
A promise is a test to true love...
When a person has given a promise, he/she has no right to give up, and will chose to fight on to make things work out.
If anyone were to desire a long lasting and deep relationship to work out, a promise is of utmost importance..

The day i've earn my guy's promise, that'll be the day that a deep lasting relationship begin, and i swear with all my heart and soul that this will be forever...