Pls give your man the Love and Tenderness of Mother Earth (Part 1)

Another posting plagarised from Yanni. AHaaAHaha~~~*
I love relationship postings from Yanni, and of course, i love Arthur's leadership talks, damn bloody funny, truthful, profound, entertaining and meaningful whenever he relates to fundamentals and philosopies of life. Both are great leaders, in their own field. Hope i can successfully translate to a full compiled set of knowledge and system for band coaching in future (if i ever successful get into the music industry again: target 2009)

Now here's the posting by Yanni,
Woman...pls give your man the Love and Tenderness of Mother Earth
(This is for girls only, and guys, don't believe a single thing I said)

After many years of research and studying in men, I finally agree to Jeff Allen and Hiromi, that man are in fact a simple animal, 500 times less complicated than woman.

Regardless of age, whether 2years old, 20s, 30s or 80s, they are still a boy at heart. The most hurting words you can say to them is “hey, please grow up”. The more mature, logical and sensible they appear, is actually a camouflage of their childish self. If you don't believe, disguish yourself and go to the army whereby no girls is in sight, see what stupid things they do with each other or what silly things they talk about ( they definitely don't discuss about “How to become a Great husband” girls, give it up). Good news is, they don't bitch around.

So what does boys hated most? Their mommy nag at them and don't allow them to play.

Every woman has her motherly nature, unfortunately we always use it in the wrong way. When we are dating, we play with our boyfriend, having lots of fun, but once stable down, we inherit our mother's, grandmother's, great grandmother's habit, we become their”mother”, wanting them to do things our way, controling them because it's good for them. Please lah, when our mother tell us not to do certain things because they meant good to us, when did we ever listen?

A few things might happen,
1. they really listen to us and follow our way, and become a boring nice man, and you start
wondering, where does all those passion went?

2. They defy our way, and started the stage of power struggle, whether it's a direct warfare or cold war, there will be casualties, and it's usually both parties.

3. On the surface, they are goody pussy cat, turn around, the dark knight waiting to strike, just waiting for a single chance to get even. No wonder so many men love the Batman movie.

So what does boys really want?
1.After 1 hard day of entertaining boring clients, pleasing the difficult boss, paying endless ERP and still getting jam in the traffic, they just want a place whereby their sensitive little heart can feel safe, to let go of their armour. Giving them peace in terms of sound and mind is very important. Don't worry, if they have enough cave time, they will start coming to you, in many ways :)

2.Boys love mommy's appreciation and attention. From young, boys tried all ways to win mommy's love, regardless of the roles they play. A simple word of “well done” or something as big as “you're my hero” will give them the power to fight 10 more dragons.

3.Deep in their heart, boys equate his success/failure directly to how happy his woman is. So if we girls, play the victim role, thinking of getting the boy's attention and love, we are making a grave mistake. 1St, 2nd time,our man will still response to our calling of love, but after a while, suddenly his work becomes so busy and he starts to have endless meetings and starts have endless amount of work.

4.Boys are as insecure as we girls, though they tried their very best not to show it out. We girls, on the other hand, inherited from our ancestors the gentle tenderness of mother earth. Our femine power allows us to give love, receive abundance, nourishes the soul, warmth the heart, provide a sanctuary for them to rest in.

5.Men are simple, they just want food, love and sex. Yes, sex isdefinitely a must in a man's life. Don't always let your man beg for sex, it's too hard on their ego. Give them a good treat sometimes, jump on to them, give them a surprise, take initiative in sex. Be the one that go book a nice hotel room, be a Ritz-Carlton or hotel 81, trust me, the men don't really mind :) They just want to have a good time with you. Even in a dark carpark in East Coast, even better.

(End of Part 1)

Note: I'm definitely not good with the 5th point...too conservative... hahaAHA~~*